Durbanville - Western Cape (South Africa)

The sun is shining, the weather is sweet
Mark your calendars and grab your gear!

The pool the is sparkling
The theme is set
We're having a CEXxy pool party
You'll never forget!

Come and be free
As you've done in the past
For a day and a night that will be
A tropical blast!

Come get soaked
While we swim and play
And bask in the sun
lounging the day away

From day light to tropical sundowners
We will head into the evening
and continue to have a blast.

CEXx will be hosting our next fundraising party on Saturday the 9th of February at Casa Kink - the theme: CEXxy Pool party. So pull out your birthday suit and join us!

We will kick off early, so as to make the most of the sunlight hours, with a comfortable and shady space around the pool. Day time activities will include a game of naked pool volleyball, comfortable places to sun yourself and an outdoor cuddle puddle. As the sun sets the party will transform into a wild night of shenanigans and debauchery with lots of spaces and equipment available for use… and yes the pool and jacuzzi will be still be available.

IF THAT WAS NOT enough we will have a few other surprises in store for you, so please make sure to bring along a pocket full of R5 coins if you want to have some extra fun! More details coming soon.

DETAILS:
Venue: Casa Kink in Durbanville.
Date: Saturday 9th February
Time: 4pm - 2am
Theme: CEXxy Pool Party
Cost: R130 a ticket - tickets available at http://qkt.io/CEXXyPoolParty
all funds go towards the CEXx camp at AfrikaBurn

SPACES & EQUIPMENT AVAILABLE

* pool with floats and volleyball
* outdoor shaded social area
* indoor social areas (lounge and kitchen)
* outdoor shaded cuddle puddle
* jacuzzie in the evening / night
* a St Andrew’s Cross
* a spanking bench
* a massage table
* a room with a tantric chair for either private or public play (door open/door closed - whichever you are comfortable with)
* a room for either private or public play (door open/door closed - whichever you are comfortable with)
* a voyeur room with a king size bed (door to remain open and people encouraged to watch)
* a secluded indoor cuddle puddle room for cuddling and a shared space for sexual exploration
* a room with queen size bed available for private play
* an area set aside for rope play
* aftercare and cuddle areas
* and a number of other public play areas some of which have restraint points

Please note this is an over 18 only party as it will include some sexually explicit play.

BRING: Your lust and desires, your play toys, condoms and lube. If you are planning on sharing toys please make sure you have enough condoms to cover the toys to keep things clean and hygienic. You are also encouraged to bring snacks, drinks and your swimming towel if you wish to take a dip in the pool.

PLEASE NOTE: As this is a public party we will have a strict no illegal drugs policy. We will allow alcohol but strongly discourage play under the influence and you may be asked to leave if you are causing a disturbance. NO refunds will be given in cases like these.

THEME: The theme for the party is CEXxy Pool Party’ and we are asking everyone to please dress up or down for the festivities. Pull out your sexiest costumes whip out the body paint or just come in your birthday suit.. this is a safe space to express and explore!

SNACKS AND DRINKS: Please note that some light snacks will be provided at the party. Having fun is hungry work, so please bring a plate of snacks to share at the event, please try to be a little creative in what you bring so it’s not all chips and dips.

Please bring your own drinks, there is NO BAR! Please note that drunk or disorderly people will be asked to leave. If you are planning to play please remain sober in order to ensure that you are in a position to play safely, sanely and consensually.

GENERAL INFORMATION: Please note this is an adult only party with high levels of sexually explicit play. Both nudity and sexual play are encouraged, but by no means required. If witnessing overt sexual behaviour makes you uncomfortable, we would recommend you stick to the inside social areas (lounge, dining room and kitchen).

There is no smoking within the house, but there will be ample seating outside around the pool, and smokers are welcome to make use of the front balcony next to the lounge.

If you plan to participate in any such sexual play, please ensure you bring appropriate protection and ensure you take adequate steps to communicate and protect both yourself and your play partners.

Please practice Safe, Sane and Consensual (SSC) BDSM at all times. We have identified a few Dungeon Monitors (DMs) who will be available on the night to help to ensure that play is safe and fun and that there are people who can assist and advise if anyone has ANY concerns at all, if anyone feels at any point that a scene is unsafe or that their limits have been disrespected. DMs can be identified by their gold armbands.

No photographs without the explicit of consent of EVERYONE who will appear in the image, be aware of those standing in the background.

The party is being hosted in a residential area, you are asked to park alongside the park across the road from Casa Kink and to please be considerate of the neighbours when arriving and leaving.

We practice AfrikaBurn principles including Leave No Trace, so please clean up after yourself. This includes clearing up the play areas when you are done in them. Throw away any disposables, remake the beds, or tidy the sheets. Please take your glasses to the kitchen and load them in the dishwasher. Throw tins, glass, plastic and paper in the recycle bin and other rubbish in the bin. Please help to clear up as much as possible.

MORE ABOUT CEXx: CEXx stands for Consensual, Educational, Xploration of seX. Now in our fourth year, we are a group of friends and allies creating a camp at AfrikaBurn, focusing on workshops and talks during the day, and providing a discreet, sex-positive camp with restricted, adult-only access at night.

From the educational perspective CEXx aims to grow understanding around sex positivity ranging from understanding gender and sexual orientation, consent, safe sexual practices, relationship styles and kink.

Take a look at our Facebook page (facebook.com/CEXxAfrikaburn) for more information.

Looking forward to seeing you there.

CODE OF CONDUCT

1. CONSENT - ask before you engage in any kind of play including light physical touch. Communicate consent verbally at all times. If anything non-consensual or unsafe occurs please let a DM or the party organisers know.

2. SAFETY - communicate before, during and after any play you may partake in, ask about each other's current physical/mental/emotional state. At all times work within the guidelines of SSC/RACK/PRICK.

3. COMMUNICATION - between anyone playing or present at the party, but also with the event organiser.

4. ANONYMITY - People don't want to be photographed/recorded. Obtain express consent (noting people that may be in the background) beforehand. Respect this and delete pics if asked. Don't out people who attend the event - if you see someone you know, and they want to be anonymous in the space, respect each other and be discreet.

6. SUBSTANCES - NO illegal drugs or substance permitted, as it puts the user, everyone attending as well as the organizers at risk of prosecution.